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Alıntı losa Cevaplabullet Konu: What to ask a man on a first date?
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What to ask a man on a first date?
Almost every aspect of the relationship between a man and a woman has been raised and discussed on more than one occasion. However, the number of divorces, quarrels on household grounds, as well as broken hearts did not decrease. Incredibly, but in most cases the culprit is the inability of people to listen, hear, understand, and correctly ask the necessary questions to your partner. But the main way to find out the person you are interested in is a banal conversation. From the "right" conversations in direct dependence is the duration of the relationship.
If we talk about the "right" questions, you should start from the very first meeting and the first date of a man and a woman. Most often, it is the first day of acquaintance that determines the further opinion about the partner, therefore, preparing for a date, it is necessary to think exclusively about everything, up to the permitted topics on which the conversation will be built. Basically, this applies to the weaker sex, because they often actively take the initiative and set the rhythm of any relationship.

What to ask a man on a first date?
The first date is an exciting moment for every girl. After all, the guy who is her dream, showed interest in her and invited to a meeting. In this situation, every girl will worry and worry that during a date will make any mistake, misbehave or say something wrong. We are nervous about how and in what form to address the guy we are interested in the question and not look stupid, what outfit to choose, what to do with the hands that interfere all the time, and in General, what questions you can ask the guy, and what not. In this situation, it is important to remain calm. Despite the fact that the first date is a difficult test for each of us, yet worry about the fact that you will not find common interesting topics for conversation, it is not necessary. What to talk about on the first date has long been invented and brought together smart people for those who are worried about this and afraid that at the crucial moment will not be able to figure out what to talk about.

First you need to clearly understand what to do on the first date is absolutely impossible. Namely, after the asked question it is impossible to interrupt the man and especially to argue with him, for a long time not to tear off a look from his face, to be filled with laughter absolutely out of place. Because we women by nature are very chatty (well, where go – it's a fact!), on the first date it is very important to maintain self-control and keep yourself in hand, even if your head has accumulated a lot of questions to the guy and want to ask them all at once. You should try to ask only those questions that will not clearly tell him about the excessive and obsessive interest on your part. It is very important at this point to do everything to ordinary man's interest grew into a passion for you, so that a man imbued with trust in you. Only in this case, he himself without hints and questions will be able to tell about his ex-girlfriend and past relationships, and even about what was his punishment in childhood for pranks or hooliganism. The most sensible thing to do on a first date is to ask General questions that give a maneuver to evade the answer or allow you to clarify. For example: "You said that the meeting should be postponed for a couple of hours, you probably have a very responsible job?"This phrase is heard unobtrusively, but at the same time speaks of your interest. During the conversation better if the questions will alternate, that is, the guy asks the girl answers, then they switch roles. Otherwise, when a barrage of questions raining down on one of the interlocutors, it may give the impression of an interrogation. Therefore, everything should be in including your curiosity.

First of all, it is worth noting that on the first date the template questions such as "how are you", "how is the weather", etc. should be excluded, because these phrases have become boring and can only alienate the young man. In addition, this kind of phrase provide a short answer "Normal", etc., that is, there is no interest, and the desire to continue the conversation immediately disappears. Therefore, you show more imagination to your questions showed interest in the answer. For example, you know that he is engaged in volleyball. In this case, it would be appropriate to ask: "Why did you prefer volleyball, not Boxing or Rugby?"When did you start studying?". It is very important to talk about this topic, so that it was interesting to the interlocutor. If your partner is busy only with the computer, the questions may be of the following plan: "And what games do you prefer to play?", "What's new lately?".

It is necessary to say at once that there are several topics that are an absolute taboo for the first date, which can be asked only after you have a more trusting relationship - it's money, sex, family secrets, past relationships. And the last point applies to your past relationships. They are not worth mentioning. So never ask questions like, "How much do you make?"Why did your parents break up" or "Your ex-girlfriend left you?". Of course, we want to know about the new guy the most cherished and as soon as possible, but do not rush it. Otherwise, it is better to allow the conversation to develop naturally. Careful consideration of the issues will add tension and focus to your view, which can make the wrong impression.

The topic of parents on the first date is better not to raise at all, because there is a chance to hurt him to the quick. After all, you do not know what the nature of the relationship in the family of a young man who is interested in you. It may well be that his parents have long been divorced or there are any kind of problems in the relationship with children. There is no need to touch deeply personal themes, better to talk to the on neutral themes. You can learn about the types of recreation, which he prefers, his Hobbies. Maybe he loves football, cars, way tell related stories. At the same time you have to make it clear that you are also interested. Maybe he, like you, like animals, such as cats, or he loves to go to the movies at the premiere. It is important that your questions do not put the interlocutor in a deadlock and were equally interesting to you both. The first constraint and a certain awkwardness disappear if young people find common interests, addictions and Hobbies. It is better if the questions are in a positive way. If he told you about any of his achievements, you can praise him, Express your admiration, men like it. Only praise should be natural and to the place, otherwise you may seem false.

Favorite people is quite a close topic for men. A conversation on this topic will allow him to remember pleasant moments associated with emotionally significant people for him. This topic will allow him to open up, trusting you the most intimate.

Ask about free time may also be appropriate on the first date. This is not only a neutral topic not only concerns personal space, but also a good opportunity to get to know your object of sighs, its character and inner world, and draw conclusions. Of course, the second date will not be if the guy considers his hobby daily trips to Nightclubs and meeting new girls. You can ask about friends, adding what he had already said. For example: "it Must be great to go camping. Who keeps you company?". In addition, the friends can judge a person. It is very important to touch on the topic of bad habits, but it must be done as tactfully and delicately as possible, especially if they are unacceptable for a girl. If excessive Smoking can be seen immediately, then about alcohol or drug addiction is better to know immediately. Of the companions should be avoided.

You can also ask about the preferences of the man you are interested in eating, favorite drinks. Travel is also a great topic of conversation on a first date. Even better, if you yourself have been somewhere and can tell about it. If the guy was nowhere, he can talk about his plans and dreams about places where he would like to go.

In addition, you can touch on the topic of work, just do not go too deep. Just you can ask, where young people work, ask them to tell you what exactly does. But you shouldn't go any further.

It is appropriate to casually learn from a young man about his preferences for girls, what you like and what repels. At the same time, knowing the answer, do not adjust yourself to his preferences, be yourself. No need to get lost, because two interesting people always have something to "chat".

Every man needs his strength, dignity and courage to be recognized by someone. So ask at the first meeting only those questions, the answers to which will make him a hero in your eyes.
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Alıntı Dubin Cevaplabullet Gönderim Zamanı: 02-Haziran-2019 Saat 09:33
Talking about your ex with a potential candidate for their place is not the best choice, but the question of the worst or strangest date often gives surprising answers. For example, your companion or companion may recall a funny story of how he or she made a date for one person and came completely different due to confusion with the same name. I had to incubate the ill-fated hour until the end, cursing my own distraction.
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Alıntı Jasta Cevaplabullet Gönderim Zamanı: 02-Haziran-2019 Saat 15:54
My opinion is that you can not specify the questions on the first date. It all comes together somehow by itself. Any good improvisation must be prepared well in advance. The same applies to a love date. However, if on the eve of each meeting to work out the upcoming conversation flirting from a pleasant pastime will turn into hard work. It is better to rely on fate.
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Alıntı Dubin Cevaplabullet Gönderim Zamanı: 03-Haziran-2019 Saat 17:27
Girls and you want to meet cool African guy? The best way will be to register on the international dating site https://www.dating.com/3-best-dating-sites-in-south-africa/ here you will find a huge variety of profiles of men from South Africa who want to meet with a woman to build serious relationships and create a family. Dating in South Africa means dating to the male half of both the white race and the black. Almost all men are passionate about sports. Very fond of football, golf and rugby. At the same time they drink quite a lot of alcohol, even if you then need to drive. Attitudes towards women are normal, similar to European ones. The main value of the local population is marriage and family. People believe in the relocation of spirits and otherworldly life. Africans worship the masculine. The local population is also very hospitable and famous for its punctuality.
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Alıntı sonik Cevaplabullet Gönderim Zamanı: Dün Saat 16:01

It seems to me it is not necessary to shrink and invent. The main thing is sincerity when dealing with people. Any falsehood sooner or later becomes known. After all, no one wants to be deceived. And when deception and games come up, it becomes only more woeful from such communication. at the first date, do not interrogate each other friend. Talk about all sorts of things, but not politics or religion.
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